The Numbers Game

I was quite disappointed with the number of people who (didn't) turn up to the first coffee evening. My church planting background has taught me to take risks but also that success is measured in the number of people who come through the doors. But then I started the reflect through the eyes of all I had learned and experienced of emerging church. That it's not about numbers and bums on seats any more. That was quite liberating! Armed with new criteria I reflected on the conversations, the fun doing the quiz, the sharing of similar experiences of the three that did stay for a coffee. The connection I was hoping for was there. I need patience look beyond the need for results, let friendships grow and conversation emerge. Without denominational or self-imposed pressures for results, what's the hurry?